{"id":2151,"date":"2023-02-28T12:29:09","date_gmt":"2023-02-28T11:29:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.mythicowl.com\/?p=2151"},"modified":"2023-11-14T14:19:30","modified_gmt":"2023-11-14T13:19:30","slug":"konflikt-interesow-czyli-slow-kilka-o-prywatnych-bataliach-domowych","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.mythicowl.com\/pl\/2023\/02\/28\/konflikt-interesow-czyli-slow-kilka-o-prywatnych-bataliach-domowych\/","title":{"rendered":"Parenting Hero w wojnach domowych"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Budowanie dialogu i osi\u0105gni\u0119cie porozumienia og\u00f3lnie nie jest rzecz\u0105 \u0142atw\u0105 nawet dla doros\u0142ych.&nbsp;W odniesieniu do relacji z dzieckiem to jak st\u0105panie po polu minowym. Szczeg\u00f3lnie w okresach wzmo\u017conego buntu m\u0142odego cz\u0142owieka, czyli \u015brednio co par\u0119 lat \ud83d\ude09 Jeden niefortunny krok i pozamiatane. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cz\u0119sto w sytuacji konfliktu reagujemy z\u0142o\u015bci\u0105, wydajemy rozkazy lub u\u017cywamy niepochlebnych okre\u015ble\u0144 w stosunku do dziecka. Zazwyczaj zaostrza to tylko jego up\u00f3r i bunt. Na szcz\u0119\u015bcie s\u0105 pewne zasady, kt\u00f3re mog\u0105 nam pom\u00f3c w budowaniu porozumienia. I co najlepsze nie odnosz\u0105 si\u0119 one tylko do relacji z dzieckiem. Mo\u017cecie si\u0119 z nimi zapozna\u0107 w aplikacji Parenting Hero.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" height=\"683\" width=\"1024\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.mythicowl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/IMG_2728.jpg?resize=1024%2C683&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2160\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Przedsmak zobaczycie na filmiku o m\u0142odym perkusi\u015bcie i jego zapracowanym ojcu. Sytuacja typowa \u2013 dziecko wspaniale si\u0119 bawi robi\u0105c przy tym kosmiczny ha\u0142as. Rodzic zaczyna traci\u0107 cierpliwo\u015b\u0107, poniewa\u017c ma prac\u0119 do doko\u0144czenia. Jak to si\u0119 mo\u017ce sko\u0144czy\u0107? No c\u00f3\u017c, albo zjawiskow\u0105 k\u0142\u00f3tni\u0105, albo wsp\u00f3\u0142prac\u0105, zrozumieniem i wzajemnym uszanowaniem swoich potrzeb. Kluczem w tym przypadku jest zaakceptowanie uczu\u0107 i potrzeb dziecka, nast\u0119pnie zwerbalizowanie swoich oraz znalezienie wsp\u00f3lnego rozwi\u0105zania konfliktu \u2013 takiego, kt\u00f3re zadowoli obie strony.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Cw7vH7KLJFk?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=pl-PL&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A mo\u017ce zainteresuje Was kwestia tego, jak wyegzekwowa\u0107 utrzymywanie przez dziecko porz\u0105dku wok\u00f3\u0142 siebie? Ile to razy wchodzimy na rozsypane na pod\u0142odze jedzenie lub przyklejamy si\u0119 do lepkiego sto\u0142u? I to zazwyczaj na 5 minut przed wyj\u015bciem do pracy. Mo\u017cna tego unikn\u0105\u0107? Tak, tylko trzeba wiedzie\u0107 jak inaczej podej\u015b\u0107 do tematu. Kary, krzyk i wyzwiska nie przynios\u0105 zamierzonego efektu. A je\u015bli nawet, to nie b\u0119dzie to efekt trwa\u0142y i wynikaj\u0105cy ze zrozumienia sytuacji. Zdecydowanie lepszym sposobem b\u0119dzie powiedzenie o swoich uczuciach i pokazanie dziecku jak mo\u017ce naprawi\u0107 b\u0142\u0105d. Przekonajcie si\u0119 sami!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/sNjzeSMSAfw?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=pl-PL&#038;autohide=2&#038;start=1&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Budowanie dialogu i osi\u0105gni\u0119cie porozumienia og\u00f3lnie nie jest rzecz\u0105 \u0142atw\u0105 nawet dla doros\u0142ych.&nbsp;W odniesieniu do relacji z dzieckiem to jak st\u0105panie po polu minowym. 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